perhaps it's better to eat and be happy with a shorter life than to continually deny oneself the food one wants to eat and live a long life of longing and hunger...
Yeah, and maybe it's better to keep smoking 2 packs a day and die young and happy of cancer than deny your cravings and live a long life. Or maybe its better to keep drinking that quart of wine a day and be happy but die young of liver disease than live a long healthy life but missing your wine.
Being very obese is extremely prematurely ageing thing for your body and looks. It puts a huge strain on the heart, compresses the vascular system (ie, high blood pressure), squeezes all the internal organs, puts pressure on the spine, joints, etc. The worst thing you can do to your health and long-term looks is be badly obese. If you know you are way over your ideal weight but still think you're very beautiful and are happy with the way you are, you're in denial and sooner or later will pay a horrible price. Don't prematurely age your body anymore, get motivated and start a gentile programme to lose that weight for your own good health.
They say true beauty is on the inside, but if you're truly beautiful you will treat your body beautifully and kindly, INSIDE and out.